The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment
Interview with Marisa G. Franco about her book Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment. Argues that self-worth is a stronger predictor of income than traditional metrics like SAT scores, as it dictates our ability to act on opportunities. Low self-worth, often rooted in past traumas, leads to self-sabotage, blocking career advancements and causing individuals to reject success, even hindering financial independence. This manifests as avoidance and anxiety in relationships, where perceived future rejection is a constant threat. Genuine self-worth involves acknowledging and managing emotions, fostering sensitivity and responsiveness to internal experiences. It allows for identity flexibility, enabling individuals to capitalise on privileges and make the most of life’s opportunities, leading to improved financial and personal outcomes, fostering mutuality in relationships, and promoting realistic self-assessment rather than ego-based fragility.
