Harry Reis – How to Feel Loved
The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most
Interview with Harry Reis about his book How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most, co-authored with Sonja Lyubomirsky. Discusses what love is, and what it is like to feel loved; the consequences of not feeling loved; whether there really is a loneliness epidemic, and what constitutes real connection; five misconceptions about what makes one feel loved; what it means to “be yourself”, and the importance of reciprocity; the five mindsets to help us get the love we crave; opening, undersharing, and oversharing; the influence of culture and gender differences; whether we can find real connection with AI chatbots; polyamory and other consensual non-monogamous relationships.






